Anything Less Than A Yes Is A No

Writing out of insensibility and guts,

Everything about human comes down eventually to a Yes and a No. Just as a brainstorm mind-mapping, it began with so many alternatives we want, and they are reduced to what we need, and then to what we can, later to what we must, and finally to Yes or No.

1. Yes or No? Don't force me to change. 

A relationship doesn't start by being single-sided. It is a story based on two characters. Because of how these two people grown up in different environments, because of the age gap, or because of how they are brought up in different family statuses, when two of differences are joint being one, problems arise. They don't function the same- their speeches, their gestures and their habits. Little things that can be acceptable in short terms, when progressed to long terms, it becomes an utter annoyance. Bad habits that had been cultivated even before two were made, they become a source of arguments.

Are you ever going to change this habit of yours or not? Yes or No?

2. Yes or No? It may hurt.

Making decisions or better to say, compromising, while balancing a relationship is a long run business. Take it this way as you perhaps may, a stock market investment. Taking and giving are the mains about stock marketing. It is however very essential that we analyze beforehand the risk of taking or letting. Verbal speech itself is a hazard. Men or women, we are both sensitive creatures, oftenly taking in more on what is actually less. A Yes or a No may mean a lot to a person's ego, inner peace and self-esteem. It may sound very exhausting, but if you are not ready to be responsible on your speech and action, you are not ready to shoulder on a relationship. It is never only a man's responsibility to shoulder. The universe is created in such a way that women and men are both molded distinctively in some ways or another. Maintaining and sustaining the peaceful laws of universe, is like the Newton's Third Law of Motion:

 When one body exerts a force on a second body, the second body simultaneously exerts a force equal in magnitude and opposite in direction to that of the first body. 

3. Yes or No? Shattered pieces.

Worse comes to worst, it is not only about what is for dinner, or what color should the wall be painted. It is the question that puts the relationship on a balance. Because we expect the same for what we give in return, we feel inferior when we are not returned for the same as expected. Because she tells him I love you all the time, she expects him to tell her the same, but not returned with silence that sliced that atmosphere. Her emotions would be wrecked.

I love you. Do you love me the same?

4. Yes or No? Fear.

But little did she know, he was hurt before because of I love you. Expectancy in a relationship burdens him and makes him want to run free. He was hurt before because of I love you, he doesn't want to be tethered taunt and sink deep into his feelings. Yes or No? It is a fear. Deciding is a fear. He wanted to say yes. Instead, his lips are sealed, while letting silence overtake, overpower and overwhelm.  

5. Yes or No? Spare me pain.

I loved you, yet you never showed me more. You kept me by your side, yet you never let me touch you, not even a strand of hair. I loved you, painfully and pitifully. 

Because I needed to burst,

Shae